Elder Abuse Counselling

One in six older Australians are experiencing emotional or psychological abuse, or they’re experiencing abuse from neglect or abandonment. Many also experience financial abuse. In addition, harm to elders can include verbal harassment, emotional harm, and/or material losses such as a home or belongings. Living with abuse can further lead to low self esteem, increased fear, self-blame, anxiety, psychological or emotional injury, or depression.

You’re not alone. In counselling, we’ll create a safe and supportive place for you in our therapeutic relationship where you can express your concerns and fears openly. You’ll feel acknowledged within a supportive, empathic, non-judgemental therapeutic environment. Together, we’ll follow your way of regaining a sense of your true self while also embarking on a path of relief and healing. Finding fresh hope allows you to regain your confidence and begin to improve your well-being and quality of life.

The steps

Initial Assessment

Initially I’ll invite you to express your concerns, worries or fears so that I can understand what is going on for you and devise a plan. We will build an alliance that’s based on trust and confidentiality. This place of support is free of judgement or blame. Here, you will be able to share your experiences openly and safely.

Developing resilience

Our sessions will act as a guide towards developing self-awareness and exploring how you are with yourself  and how you in relationship. As your companion, I’ll walk with you so that you can begin to rebuild your inner strength and resilience. This creates a foundation for healing emotional wounds, and a platform on which to understand what your next steps will be.

Processing unresolved emotions and experiences

Based on approaches drawn from Emotion Focused Therapy and Focusing-Oriented Therapy in particular, I will facilitate your process of accessing and expressing your emotions that relate to the abuse you are experiencing. I will support you as you identify and process feelings of guilt, shame, anger or sadness associated with the abuse. Together we will explore the impact it has on your self-esteem. We will then begin to explore ways of rebuilding your self-worth and confidence in yourself personally and in relationship.

Your well being

We will identify your recurring patterns of response, such as in times of stress or when certain people or events trigger unresolved conflicts. We will work on developing ways of advocating for yourself. Together, we’ll develop some steps for self-care, including rekindling old interests and/or social connections, developing new ones, and improving how you feel about yourself. Ultimately, this will lift the quality of your daily living on a personal and interpersonal level in social situations.

Please note that the approach described above is broad general. I will tailor our sessions to meet your specific needs and both in the context of your specific circumstances and within the dynamics of your family (or caregiver) system.

Please contact me to schedule a free initial consultation

+61 404 529 704

karen.thomas@HummingbirdTherapy.org

In-Person, Phone &/or Telehealth sessions

If you need immediate help:

In case you need immediate help: